Blog # 3 Loss is a gift
In my time as a life coach, I have observed the difficulties clients experience when propositioned with letting go, missing out, losing and failing. I have supported many people after life threw curve balls at them and things didn’t work out according to plan such as a marriage ending or a job made redundant. I have seen firsthand how hard it is for people to create opportunities and reinvent themselves when experiencing significant loss. It is heartbreaking and it’s not their fault. Ideals and expectations corrupt and prevent people from truly living life. The idea of winning and wanting more seems to cause endless suffering, yet it appears to be the human condition. People are literally killing themselves by hanging on and attributing value to external ideas, opinions, people and objects. Since becoming chronically unwell I am asked alot of questions about my losses. I am perceived by many to be taking it in my stride and to a large extent it is true. Here are my musings as to the re...